There a number of important things that come from a funeral or memorial service. The biggest value is the actual “gathering” and “remembering” of the one we lost. This planned gathering gives an invitation to other family, friends, co-workers, and the community and provides a specific time, place and purpose. This gathering, which of course is beneficial for many reasons, sets … [Read more...]
Mom talked to us kids and said she wants to “preplan her service” so she gets exactly what she wants, we’re all for it, but what’s the best way to get started?
Great question! There are some easy ways to get started. For many people the conversation you’ve already had is the hardest. So good for you, your siblings, and your Mom! My advice would be to start with free resources that are focused on explaining and educating you about preplanning. Many funeral homes, including Hoff, offer free preplanning guides. You should also look for … [Read more...]
Can a funeral service be personalized to reflect the one we lost?
Absolutely! In fact, we encourage this and work hard to make sure we listen to the families we work with to capture the story of the loved one they have lost. We have always believed that everyone has a unique story to tell and the funeral service, memorial or celebration of life, should reflect that person’s life during this service. From the readings, songs, the … [Read more...]