There are templates to help with writing a common obituary. Their format cannot be followed here because this obituary must describe an uncommon person. Shauma Renee Benson was born on September 11, 1983, in La Crosse, Wis., to her mother Michele Benson, but everything that happened after that was uniquely Shauma. As she entered school, even her kindergarten teacher, Barb Culhane noticed this uncanny ability to see into other people’s hearts, to empathize with them and be called to action on their behalf. Her teacher said, “Shauma is the most mature and intuitive kindergartener I have ever taught in my lifetime.”
As she grew, her love of people and children called her into service to mankind. She graduated from Winona State University as a Licensed Social Worker and through several agencies, brought justice, peace, and healing to others. No situation of injustice or need escaped her eye, nor her call to action. She was a warrior for the underprivileged, the ill, the homeless, the forgotten and the troubled.
She met and married Brad Meyer, and together they became the parents of four wonderful children: Grace Hannah, 17; Sophie Joe Benson, 13; Charlotte Michele, 11; and George Bradley, 8. To these children she gave the gift of a love taught to us by Jesus Christ through the apostle Paul: Patience and kindness, relationships without conceit, pride or the notice of wrongs, a love that clings to truth, faith, hope, and endures all things.
In addition to her family, she loved the ocean, campfires, people watching, reading and photography. Laughing was more than the expression of happiness for her, it was a way of life. Her joy was always near the surface and was meant to be shared.
Her body struggled to conquer a liver disease, however on Saturday, February 19, 2022, she peacefully passed through the door into eternal peace and happiness. Her family was at her side, and she was safe in the same room as when her loving grandfather, Llewellyn Benson made that same journey exactly 13 years earlier. Our faith assures us that she was welcomed into Heaven not only by “Bumpa,” but all the company of saints that preceded her: grandparents, uncles and aunts, cousins, and dear friends. We all grieve the loss of her presence in our lives, but we know we will see her again.
Her entire family: husband Brad Meyer, children Grace, Sophie, Charlotte, and George; mother Michele Thompson;, brothers Jeremy Olson and Tanner Olson, step-fathers Mark Olson and Daryl Thompson, grandmother Nancy Benson, mother- and father-in-law Bonnie and Duane Meyer, many aunts and uncles, nieces and nephews and cousins all wish to say “thank you” for the kindness of our communities, for your thoughts and prayers, as well as for the contributions to GoFundMe and through other channels.
Visitation will be Saturday, February 26, 2022, at 10 a.m. at Hoff Funeral Home in Rushford, Minn., with the funeral service following at 11 a.m. Rev. Daryl Thompson will officiate. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorials be directed to the children’s education fund, c/o Bradley Meyer.
Melody swofford says
Shauma Meyers was one of the most beloved and kind woman I had ever met. In my eyes, she was intelligent, determined and a fierce mother who loved her children above and beyond. My heart aches for them. My heart aches for her survivors. God bless you in Heaven Shauma. And may God grant peace to your family.
Shannon Laumb says
I have so many memories of time with you-babysitting you and your brothers, to all the conversations and stories we have shared! You will be so missed by so many people that were blessed to have known your caring, loving and beautiful soul!!!
Marge O'Laughlin says
I have nothing but fond memories of Shauma. Whether it was running into her at the store, or swapping kids from one house to the other when they were younger, she always had a smile on her face. We lost someone special, but there is one huge party going on in Heaven, because they just got a really good one!!
Uncle Jeff says
She was such a special lady.I will.miss her so much.God please bless this wonderful family.
Taryn says
Absolutely beautiful soul inside and out! A very great loss!! Shauma and I could have some great debates and still come out ok! She raised four fabulous children! You will be missed!
Dan Byer says
Shauma you were such a beautiful person. Inside and out. You always put everyone else in front of yourself. That’s just the way you were. Your one the most. Loving and caring person’s. I have ever met. You were loved by so many. And will be missed by more !. Love you girl 🥰